Wabi Sabi
Shortly before leaving for
Budapest, there was a first in a short series of Ideabooks in Houzz (
a internet shelter site) on Wabi-Sabi. It very much struck a chord
as Japanese culture has been an major influence for as long as I can
remember. I contributed in the comments section to the first article
and checked in on further comments as they came in on our down time. It was
really cool to see such a good response to such an anti-bling concept.
I had been exposed to Wabi-Sabi not as a concept but as
a way of life by family friends in Mexico who were very much
of traditional Japanese culture. This family was one of my aunt and
uncle’s closest friends. They were pretty much family as I called them aunt and
uncle as well. We saw them just about every week and I worked intermittently in
their pharmacy. I was very much drawn by their discipline and
formality. Once when I was doing my homework at their home, I asked if we could
listen to the radio; my aunt Emy’s reply was you can pay attention to the radio
or to the homework. My honorary aunt knew instinctively what Clifford Nass
researched and warned about, multitasking. I also now recognize their modesty-
in the context of a small city in 1960’s Mexico, I later realized that they
were affluent, but that was not readily apparent in their home.
In college, I continued to learn about Japanese culture
and history and became a fan of Japanese films. As a woodworker, I was
introduced to their tools by a friend who mentored me in this craft. Their
chisels, saws and planes rapidly became my primary hand tools. They are just as
indispensable as my power tools.
Prior to medical
training and practice, I had done
remodeling and construction work with utilitarian goals- fix it and rent it
out. Once I start working on my home,
my need for the place to feel like home led me to the Arts and Crafts style
where once again, the Japanese influence was felt. But during all this time,
while I had absorbed Wabi-Sabi, the
Houzz articles put a name to what I felt a kinship with: a reverence for the
well-worn, imperfect, asymmetric and modest in the context of a culture that
could produce a beautiful, razor sharp, exquisitely finished sword in the
middle ages.
One of the many pleasures of Eastern Europe was seeing so
much of what I at this time perceive as Wabi-Sabi in their architecture and
culture. I at times felt like a peasant when in London, Paris, Munich and other
Western European cities. Despite the language barrier, there was a strong feeling
of kinship with the culture of Eastern
Europe. I just really loved the character of the buildings and their more
analog way of life.
We also encountered Wabi-Sabi in many of our interactions with Hungarians, Slovakians and Poles- a sense of modesty and down-to-earth that is very much a part of that aesthetic.
We also encountered Wabi-Sabi in many of our interactions with Hungarians, Slovakians and Poles- a sense of modesty and down-to-earth that is very much a part of that aesthetic.
Catholicism
Someone taught that temples are for fanatics only
and took away the temples and promised there was no need for temples. And now
there is no shelter, And no map for finding the shelter of a temple. And you
all stumble in the dark, this confusion of permissions. The without-end pursuit
of a happiness of which someone let you forget the old things which made
happiness possible.
David Foster Wallace Infinite Jest
Infinite Jest was the other context that colored my
experience of Eastern Europe. The USA is home and no other country is
preferable. But for many people and in many aspects, the United States has
diminished in the qualities that made it a great country. IJ portrays much of
late 20th century American dysfunction. It seems that there has not been a
major American institution- government, religious, education- that has not been
diminished in public esteem in the past 40 years with that trend seemingly
accelerating in the past 20 years. In contrast to the irony and cynicism
pervasive in America, was the role of religion in these 3 countries, especially
Poland.
I was struck by the prominent role of Catholicism in
Poland. They believe. The Poles also have a hero-something lacking in the US-
in Karol Wojtyla/Pope John Paul II.
I cannot look past the child abuse that went on during his tenure. I continue to practice Catholicism and admire JPII for his humanity, accomplishments and as a source of inspiration and because the Church is made of humans and thus subject to being less than exemplary at all times- as we all are.
I cannot look past the child abuse that went on during his tenure. I continue to practice Catholicism and admire JPII for his humanity, accomplishments and as a source of inspiration and because the Church is made of humans and thus subject to being less than exemplary at all times- as we all are.
I loved the notion of a bar named The Unexamined Life in
IJ and wish that I could believe as the
Poles seem to believe. DFW in his much loved
This is Water graduation speech at Kenyon College (yes, I've
become a Wallace-head) noted that there
is no such thing as atheism. We all believe in something.
The only choice we get is what to worship.
And the compelling reason for maybe choosing some sort of god or spiritual-type
thing to worship -- be it JC or Allah, bet it YHWH or the Wiccan Mother Goddess,
or the Four Noble Truths, or some inviolable set of ethical principles -- is
that pretty much anything else you worship will eat you alive. If you worship
money and things, if they are where you tap real meaning in life, then you will
never have enough, never feel you have enough. It's the truth. Worship your
body and beauty and sexual allure and you will always feel ugly. And when time
and age start showing, you will die a million deaths before they finally grieve
you. On one level, we all know this stuff already. It's been codified as myths,
proverbs, clichés, epigrams, parables; the skeleton of every great story. The
whole trick is keeping the truth up front in daily consciousness.
Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/david-foster-wallace-graduation-speech-2013-5#ixzz2kGj3yNu1
Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/david-foster-wallace-graduation-speech-2013-5#ixzz2kGj3yNu1
The speech goes on to give an alternative to
the irony and cynicism prevalent in American culture or the blind belief that
leads to atrocities perpetrated in
the name of God and Country. And Eastern Europe provided an alternative to the ostentation
( I swear not to buy anything described as stunning- I'm tired of that word), irony and cynicism I see so
much of in my country.